Love is…

Love is not owning or occupying one’s life, but care and make one’s life better.

Challenge and Choice

Every day in life, we make decisions. Small ones and big ones.

After walking for some time, you come across a challenge. You have 3 choices:

You can stand in front of the challenge, think and think and continue to think what you want to do next.

You can turn around, go back to the previous junction that you left long ago to find another way, with the hope it will be a better way.

Or you can take up the challenge, see your destination and move forward faster, smoother.

I have chosen 3^rd option and moving on. Where are you now? Have you made your choice?

月老的悲哀

月老的悲哀，是要将心爱的人和情敌牵在一起。。。
这是唯一的选择，就不用想了，还是要去做的吧。。。

先让月老止一止心里惝流 的血吧！

笨蛋！笨蛋！笨蛋！

为什么每次我都输给笨蛋，而那些笨蛋却去伤害我心爱的人？
而我每次都不能为她做些什么。显！

命运

他们的命运如何？他们的命运可以被改变吗？所谓缘起缘灭，人有悲欢离合，月有阴晴圆缺。或许冥冥中有天注定。只要尽了力，其余的就由天决定。

Do your best and leave the rest to God.

Always remember, you always have a choice, which is do or not to do.

祝你们好运。希望我们可以在一起。

八月十五— 中秋节

今年的中秋节比较不一样。家人不在，正日晚上约了几位同事共进晚餐。由于大家工作都很累，用餐及品尝月饼后，就各自回家休息。

回到家，举头想望一望 月圆忽然想起。。。

你也在看着月亮吗？
今夜的月亮，不亮，不清。将月亮 模糊的，是乌云，是雨水，仰或是泪水？

别哭了，我原谅你。

爱情篇之一

给她:

我的心很小，因为只能容纳你一个。

我的心也很大，因为能容纳你的一切。优点、缺点 、性格、家人、工作、兴趣、习惯通通可以接受包容。因为爱·很·大。

The Forth Kind& 新娘15岁

Today I watched an english movie "The Fourth Kind" and a korean movie 《新娘15岁》.

"The Fourth Kind" is talk about alien abduction. There is one time during my watch of this movie, I was believed that God is actually alien which appears since ancient time. It turns out it is the alien faking as God. It is a nice movie but very scary. In web, there is also debate of whether this is a true story or just a scam. Watch it, read blogs and judge yourself. Nice movie, but a bit scary. :-P


《新娘15岁》 is a social movie. It talks about a young couple getting pregnant due to pure ignorance. It is very special movie as they have gone through many difficulties to come to happy ending. Why it is so special? Their parents also object and reject them when they knew it. It's because the young couple determination and love that make a difference. Here I feel that it is not how things are going. It is how you react to things happened. Nice and warm movie, when I see how the young couple support each other. Good good :-)

Merdeka~ Merdeka~ Merdeka~

Merdeka eve, I was playing Monopoly card games with secondary school friend in McD. I also have the card in my bookshelf, but I have give up trying to play as the instruction is not easy to understand. Haha~ I din't start to play until my friend teaches me. It is my first time playing a card game that uses so much brain power :-p

Anyway, it is a very nice game... Thanks for my friend for teaching and playing this game with us. If not, probably I will never expose to that for the rest of my life :-)

Start to Love

The most memorable thing of this topic happened during 7 Habits course. The speaker Harry Kang emphasizes LOVE very much. It captured my mind. Life is nothing without love. He told us to hug our parents, say goodbye and kiss husband or wife and children before leaving home for work. Love is not giving materials needed. Love is not by just speaking it. But, love is an action. Do it and let your love one feels it.

Recently, a friend of mine lend me a book. Tuesday with Morrie, Chinese version. Even though this is my 2nd time reading it (last time was English version), it still make me feel there are a lot of things we can and we should do to the world and society. Like spending time with old folks and patients. They need hope and concern. They need someone to listen to. They need love.

It's my birth day...

After delaying some time, this blog is born. I have a lot of opinions, comments and ideas in mind. Now I would like to express it to the world through this blog.

Many things I have experienced in life that change my attitude, personality, perception very much resulting my present self. Let's share how you think and feel as well.

:-)